Lorelei<3 asked:


some guys say im pretty but its not “like that” because im wayyyyy shy. when my friends’ boyfriends hold their hands, kisses them, holds them, laughs, and tells them “i love you” everytime. i get jealous when they say it gives them butterflies when they talk to their boyfriends. i get real jealous because i want someone like that in my life for once. i dont want to be single and unmarried all my life living with 9 cats!!!!

Help? can anyone relate to my situatuation? any tips or ideas?
I’ve never had a boyfriend and never been kissed. I don’t make the first move to start a conversation; but when I see a cute guy, I don’t know how to show him I’m interested. I don’t want to scare a guy off or make him think I’m randomly going up to talk to him!

I usually go for the cute, shaggy-hair guy types. But since I’m shy I don’t know how to show interest. Since guys never seem to make the first move, I gave up on waiting for them. I don’t know how to identify if a guy likes me or not; I can’t tell whether he’s being friendly or flirty. Any signs I should look for?
Are guys afraid to approach me? I like to give my presence too, I don’t want to come off as someone who can be taken advantage b/c I’m shy. I think girl in general are skeptical about true intentions a guy may have.
Lots of info please!

Shirley

Best hair asked:


i think…….I DONT KNOW!!!!!
this boy got me crazy
i love his smell
his hair
his face
his voice
when he smiles i just light up!!!
and even the slightest touch i get a so much butterflies that it goes up to my throat. and i just want more (you know what i mean??)
even if he says somethings so corney i laugh anyway.
when i know i have next period with him i race to class
i know his schedule
i get real mad when another girl says they like him. i would like seriously fight for him.

what is this boy doin to me????
i think he likes me back but when i told my friend i like him that just ruined everythingi want him to ask me out by the way

i guess i am old fashioned

please tell me what wrong

i think i have been bitten by the love bug

Jean

cate d asked:


there is this super cute guy i like and everytime i see him i cant get him out of my head. im not obsessed or anything but i really like him. he is funny and sweet and really nice, but pretty much every girl in my school likes him too. but he isnt stuck up like the other hot guys. he is totally down to earth. i really want to stand out to him. in a good way. my friends say he looks at me in class a lot and seems to like me but i’ve never noticed it. does he like me? what should i do?
please help!

Jamie

pandagirl asked:


ok… so theres this guy and i admire him alot because he is mr.perfect in sports and academics,and i always get super nervous around him and i get butterflies everytime i even think of him. He is super nice also, i like him a whole lot. But I would not want to kiss him, Yuck! Its like i wish i can be his friend, but why is it i get so nervous around him and conscious.

Ryan

? ! <3 @l3x ? asked:


there is this guy i like.
not even.
we have a pretty good thing going on the computer but we only say hi in the hallways at school, and i usually have to say hi first
i am overweight :[ and i have lost 5 pounds so far walking to and from school and i plan on loosing more
he is tall thin and he plays tennis. he is smart and nice/sensitive
he recently broke up with his gf, and they remain close friends.
i think i am in love with him because i get major butterflies all day during school, hes all i think about, and i cant focus on anything because i cant wait to get back to the computer to see if hes on.
i cant stop smiling when i see him, and i get all twitchy and shake my foot.
how can i get him to like me when hes kinda shy and we only have one class.
u have no idea how much i wanna go out with him
what do i do!?!?!?!?

Arnold

whoa baby! asked:


I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months. We are very happy now but we did somethings in the past that still linger and pester us to this day. I was a girl of many friends i was always out with the girls and yea i knew lots of guys. He too was a social butterfly and always put his boys first before his lady. We started dating and at first i wasn’t really into it. It was one of those things where i thought he was nice and decided to give it a shot. He wasn’t the shiniest marble out there and that kinda bothered me because of my high expectations. I thought his friends were super cute and actually had the intentions to hook up with one of them after we broke up because i didn’t think we were gonna last long. I know what a ***** lol but on with my story; it got to the point where i developed a crush on his best friend. I never did anything or showed signs of it but i would mention in to my bff. I tried to break up with him numerous times but for some reason i never could. Something always stopped me. The time came where my friend was like “you can’t keep doing this break up with him already” so i did. After i did it i thought i was going to be relieved; turns out i wasn’t. I missed him. I wasn’t too happy about my new found singleness. He had been nothing but nice to me, he cared about me and taught me things i never knew about. The day after the break up i couldn’t stand not talking to him for even a day, i decided to at least text him to see what was up. I text him, but no response. For the rest of that day i was one cranky *****. The next day he text me back. when i say his name on the text i was so happy despite the coldness of his use of words. We started talking more like friends rather than a bitter broken up couple. To make the story shorter lol, it seemed like we had never broken up but we weren’t formally together. the time came where i told him we should get back together. From then on our relationship was great! until his buddy decided to hack my myspace and read all my previous messages about how i thought his buddy was hot ya dee ya dee da. Obviously he told him and my boyfriend was furious. Now, get this, i logged onto his myspace and read a message from before we had broken up. It was from his ex girlfriend of a year where he straight up calls her “baby” through out the message. Im not trying to justify myself but how could he judge when he was out doing the same thing. Sure what i did was far worse but he was out and about as well.

Present day, because im very in love with him, i have cut off my relationships with my guy friends (i figured i could make that sacrifice to show him im serious), and even some of my girlfriends. I changed my phone number i dont go out with my buds and we even agreed to delete our myspace accounts. get this though: he logged onto his cousins account “for fun” to talk to a “friend” who would txt him and call him like crazy. He would hang out with her a lot and when he would come to my house to visit me there was her hand writing all over his truck. he initiated the conversation with her and said “hello darlin”
big deal i know but still. we agreed we were done with all that stuff.
what gets to me is all i did was in the first month of us dating and hes
doing it now on the 5th or 6th?? isn’t that worse?!

now my question here is: Shouldn’t the past be in the past?? He still continues to bring up ancient history when i complain about something he did recently. Like…. sure i made a mistake but i think i have shown him enough that i love him, why can’t he accept that and he brings it up? like shouldn’t what he does now matter more than what i did before since we are more committed and into our relationship now?

im so confused. lol if someone understands do share wisdom.

Anita

sunshine asked:


before i see him is this not normal? we’re super comfortable with each other but i still get like a little nervous like we just started dating lol

Beverly

Watercup asked:


I know its work to compromise etc. but is the ‘honeymoon’ phase truly something that fades? can one be in that super butterfly stage for a lifetime?

Brent

music nerd 16 asked:


I have a guy friend that I’ve known since 3rd grade. I’ll call him Alex. I used to like Alex for a while, maybe from 5th to the beginning of 7th grade. I knew he liked me, too. We weren’t in any classes together for two years and I pretty much figured it was over because I didn’t like him anymore and he had a girlfriend. Then I started liking another guy that I’ve known for basically as long. I’ll call him Bill. I’ve never liked a guy as much as I like Bill. He is the first guy I’ve cried over, and I can’t count how many times I have. I get super butterflies around him, but when I’m talking to him I could stay there and listen to him talk about even stupid stuff for hours. I miss him as soon as he turns away, and I haven’t gone a single day without thinking about him for at least six months. I’ve liked Bill for probably a year and a half now. This past February, he started dating a girl that I was kind of friends with two years ago, but in the last year had drifted. Obviously, I was upset, but at least he was happy. At the end of the school year, Alex asked me out out of nowhere. I was totally surprised because I didn’t see him a lot and I really thought we both knew we were just friends. So I turned him down because I didn’t want to hurt his feelings since I like Bill so much. Now, I have two problems. The first is that both Alex and Bill are in the same class with me. I sit next to Alex (alphabetically) and he’s always really nice to me. He always laughs at my jokes, when I laugh, offers to help me with my homework, and tries to talk to me when I’m talking to my friend. I’m pretty sure he still likes me, and now I’m afraid he might ask me to homecoming. My second problem is that Bill’s girlfriend sits next to me in one class, and she calls me for homework help and is friendly and stuff. Like I said, we used to be friends, but I haven’t really talked to her for a year. I wouldn’t pick her out of a crowd, but I feel like I should be nice to her. The problem is, I don’t think I can be friends with her since it is against the rules to like your friend’s boyfriend. Please help! sorry for the length…

Evelyn

MGS asked:


I recently started seeing this guy and we can talk great over the computer and by text messages but when it comes down to talking in person it is so hard and we equally agree. We like each other so much but find it super awkward to tell our feelings to each other in person. We also have the massive butterfly feeling in our stomachs and we both can’t seem to get ride of them. Can someone tell me how we can talk in person so it’s not awkward? THANKS

Marc